It’s the Easter holidays. On Good Friday we asked the boys what they wanted to do. As well as various requests for Scalextric tracks and Monopoly, large boy said he wanted to see his grandparents.
Trying to meet up with himself’s parents for the day is kind of hard as we live 8 hours apart. However, seeing my parents was entirely possible to organise and, at last, not unreasonably risky. They’re vaccinated, numbers are low, the boys have been off school for almost 10 days.
Location location location
It’s a good 2 and a half to 3 hour drive to my parents’ house from home so going all the way there wasn’t going to work. Instead, we picked a spot in between, a bit closer to them so their drive would be a bit shorter.
The Major Oak and Sherwood Forest visitor centre is somewhere I visited as a child as did both my parents. We didn’t pick it for nostalgia though, just convenience and in the hope that it would be nice and quiet compared to Sherwood Pines.
Meeting Up
We haven’t seen my parents since August last year, pretty much 8 months ago.
In the event it was simple enough. Up at a decent hour but not too early, packed a picnic with the vitally important cakes and hot coffee, in the car and music streaming on. We arrived just a few minutes apart and managed to park together. The sparkle in the boys’ eyes when they spotted their grandparents was worth a fortune.
Incidentally, we drove past Thornbridge Hall which I’d never heard of before, but had read Molly’s blog post about it the previous day (see Lovely Local Indie), definitely looks worth a visit.
After a very important toilet trip we walked a little loop to see the Major Oak, then went back to the cars for sandwiches, crisps, fruit, and cake. Then back out for a long walk through the woods. All in all about 8km and the boys were moaning about sore feet and legs by the end.
A Little Joy
I’ve written before about how amazing my mum is. She’s also very lucky to have my wonderful dad. They’ve both had a tough few years caring for my dad’s mum as her health and mind failed her. She died quietly and without pain, while my dad held her hand, a couple of weeks ago. So now my parents are arranging a lockdown funeral.
My dad is a very honest man, open with his emotions for the most part. I don’t know when I last saw him cry, and I am well aware that he wasn’t close to his mum – she hadn’t been tender when he was growing up and she held grudges for decades, vocally making her antipathy very clear on occasion. None of that detracts from his sorrow when she died, seeing my dad let the tears flow made me just want to hold him.
So despite the sad times we’ve had recently, it was still a joy to see my parents. Just to be near them, with them, seeing the boys joke and share stories was wonderful. We mucked about and teased each other, chatted running and the horrors of Brexit, resisting the strong temptation to have a massive hug.
Just a couple of hours of joy but a much-needed glimpse of normality.
Smelly Socks and Garden Peas 
Thanks for sharing, I’m glad that you had a great time 🙂
Nic | Nic’s Adventures & Bakes
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Thanks it was awesome
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Its such a long time to not see your parents for, and must have been so lovely for you all.
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It was totally awesome
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I’m so glad you were finally able to spend time with your parents! That had to make your soul happy 🙂
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Thanks, it was awesome
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I am so sorry for your loss, but I am so glad that you have been able to see your parents. Probably needed more now than ever.
Here’s to many more times together with family x x
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So beautiful to read, we so often forget the smallest things can often bring us the biggest joy. You write beautifully, great job.
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Thank you, it was awesome to see them
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Such a lovely read. I’m so glad you were able to spend a bit of quality time together after being apart for so long.
Claire.X
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Thanks, it was awesome
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This was such a sweet post to read!! Family is so important and I’m glad you were reunited x
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It was awesome to see them!
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Sounds like a lovely day. I can only imagine the joy of seeing your parents after 8 months.
My Mum and my mother-in-law both live a half hour drive away. It’s harder to see my Mum because she lives in an apartment so outdoor visiting is difficult, especially in winter. Pre-pandemic, she used to come here every Friday and have lunch with me. I miss our Friday visits and hope we can restart them soon. But…for now…we’re under another “stay at home order” here in Ontario.
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Oh gosh! We’ve just been let out and next week the boys can get haircuts! I hope you and your mums are OK, fingers crossed for warmer weather and easier conditions so you can see them properly soon xx
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The worst part for us is we were out for a few weeks and then back in again. Our region isn’t too bad but some areas are out of control so they put the whole province under the stay-at-home order. It’s our spring break this week (postponed from March to get things under control…which obviously didn’t work). I’m taking the week of work because I need a break but, we won’t be doing much.
I just with the vaccines were rolling out faster. I should be in the next age group!
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Fingers cross you get the vaccine soon. We’re on Easter holidays now and people seem to be much less silly than they were in February so hopefully we won’t see a spike in a few weeks.
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I felt all the heartfelt emotion and love in this post. Such a beautiful read. Hearing the stories of being reunited after so long is truly a blessing.
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It was awesome. I can’t wait for a big squeezy hug with them.
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Hopefully, you’ll see them again very soon. 🤗
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Unfortunately, it’ll be in 2 and a half weeks for my gran’s funeral.
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I’m so sorry. I hope you’re all ok.
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Thanks, we’re doing alright. It was expected and she was ready.
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I’m really touched by this post. So pleased that you’ve met up with your parents.
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It was awesome. Probably partly responsible for my low mood today though.
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Such a lovely read! Sounds like you had a lovely time. Much needed to!
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It was much needed. X
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It warmed my heart to o hear about your day. Thank you for sharing!
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Thanks it was an awesome day
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This was such a great read and it makes me happy for you! It’s the small things that make us happy right now and I am sure that after so long it was such a great time with them for all of you! Thank you for sharing x
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Thanks, it was awesome
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So touching to think about your reunion – and especially your boys’ reactions. I dream of my nephew’s eyes lighting up like this when I finally walk out of that airport in Bdos later this year!
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Oh that sounds a wonderful thing to look forward to as well xx
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What a lovely read.
It’s great to see people starting to reunite with people they’ve not seen for a while.
We live Sherwood Forest and I’ve got many photos of the great oak tree.
Glad you all had a fantastic few hours!
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Thanks, it was a lovely day out indeed
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Firstly, thank you so much for linking to my Thornbridge review! I am chuffed to bits! I was actually reading your post anyway so it was a lovely surprise. Glad you had a lovely day. I can identify with so much of what you’ve written… but the sheer joy of seeing loving grandparents reunited with their grandchildren really is special isn’t it?
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It was awesome seeing everyone just easily slip back into our normal chatter
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