Warning: I'm just going to dive right in here, no gentle preamble or stories about silly things the boys did. The issues around inclusion and unconscious bias (as well as just basic exclusion based on gender, race, social position, education, religion, and orientation or identity) are a bit of a bug bear for me. From … Continue reading Inclusion – a how to
We live in the UK, so for us Thanksgiving is usually some far off celebration that doesn't mean very much to us, not unlike Bastille Day or Indian Independence Day. For me, it means a lovely quiet week at work as my company has a large presence in California and the North East of the … Continue reading Thanksgiving 2020
This post comes from Tom at The Doubting Thomas. Does Losing Friends Mean You Should Lose Yourself? When I was asked if I wanted to write a post focusing on our reactions to losses, I had to think long and hard about what I was going to do; I guess I've been fortunate enough not … Continue reading Lessons in Loss 2: Old Friendships
Last year I used a beautiful fabric advent calendar that my mum made to plan out a set of activities for the boys. Of course they didn't all go quite as planned, but we had a great time not eating chocolate. Previous years I've been more organised and bought them each a little something each … Continue reading Homemade Advent Calendar
Or "why watching football with your dad is important for boys". (Where "dad" means father figure, male respected adult, whatever, just someone not in the "soft and fuzzy" stereotype.) Now, I'm sure that anyone who has read this blog for a while knows that I'm fiercely anti-stereotypes and pro-equality and fairness in the face of … Continue reading Emotional Football
Blogger to blogger awards are such a supportive way of showing our appreciation for each other and the work that other bloggers do. I've been lucky enough to be nominated for a few other awards in the past, you can access them here: Awards. Each time I've been hugely flattered and grateful for the opportunity … Continue reading Blogger Recognition Award
11 November 2020 They shall grow not old, as we that are left grow old:Age shall not weary them, nor the years condemn.At the going down of the sun and in the morningWe will remember them. Today I'm remembering the fallen, the sacrifices, the efforts of those involved in and affected by war. I'm remembering … Continue reading Remembering
How to go for an autumnal walk with the kids in, well, a whole bunch of easy catch phrases. Right, wellies on! Do your coats up, don't want to freeze. Don't run across the car park. How can you need a wee? You went before we left. Keep up with Dad please. Watch where you're … Continue reading Keep Up!
I think about loss from time to time, as you probably know if you're a regular reader over here. I've discussed recovery from loss of a baby and other people's reactions. But, we don't only struggle or grieve over the loss of a person - whether they were fully-formed or not. Sometimes loss is part … Continue reading Lessons in Loss
