I’m trying to work from home, as is my husband, while also both supporting our sons’ home learning. Honestly, we’re a bit overwhelmed.
There are so many lists of links out there for daily activities to do with the kids: zoo watch, literacy, PE, stories, yoga, museums, all sorts of things and all at set times, often on YouTube. Add to that the encouragement to be chilled and savour this time with our kids. Not to mention the board games, outdoor play, crafting and movie watching. Just to tip us over the brink, there are all the activities sent home from school.
I haven’t tried to figure out if its possible to time table in all the three million things, I doubt it. I know for sure it’s not possible while also trying to work 90% in 4 days.
We’re just trying to maintain the basics. Both kids are doing maths and literacy each day, with some science, art, computing, lego, outside time where possible. Often doubling down on science and computing.
I know its supportive and those resources are fantastic for anyone feeling less than confident about being responsible for their child’s learning for the coming weeks or months. I’m just finding the volume of recommendations too much.
I know I need to either find a way of disconnecting from the impression of expectation when I see these things recommended, or come off social media (at least Facebook) for a while.
Once again the working mummy guilt is strong, all those families enjoying dedicated parent children time – kids choosing to start home school at 7.30am, parents helping make beautiful crafts, teachers with kids writing diaries and getting them marked every day.
Nope our kids don’t get any of that.
Hopefully what they get is an understanding that mum and dad want the best for them, that working helps us to provide that, that we want them to be safe (because we aren’t sending them to school even though we theoretically could as himself is a key worker), that learning is nevertheless important and that we trust them to be sensible enough to be in the house without constant supervision. Sounds like a lot of self-justification. But it is what it is, if it all gets too much I’ll drop a half a day more each week.
In the mean time, we haven’t had a huge row yet, boredom hasn’t been declared, and I haven’t forgotten to put myself on mute before returning to mummy mode when they’ve interrupted a meeting.
We’re all doing the best we can. And that is enough. I just need to remind myself from time to time.